MORE ABOUT MERETE

For most of my life I have felt like I have had to prove myself. Always seeking validation through other peoples approval. When people approved, I was safe. If someone gave me even just a tiny bit of feedback that wasn’t all great it felt like a failure and, and like my whole sense of safety was challenged. 
After going through an extensive self-examination-period with coaching and reading lots of books on these subjects, I found that “not being liked” actually threatened my whole existence. 
My work is not liked = I am not liked = I can't be loved = no human connection= death... 
That dramatic you might think, but yes. That is in fact the core of why we keep on people pleasing (from the research of the great Brene Brown) and why so many women suffer from burnout. And that was what my subconscious beliefs were feeding me. And it was wearing me out completely.
If I said no, no one would love me.
Feels familiar? This is why women especially struggle to create healthy boundaries. 
Then discovering lasercoaching - my world completely shifted. Finally a tool that finds the root-causes and rips them out, not just talking about looking ahead and how to fix BEHAVIOURS! Because you can't fix behaviours if your subconscious is constantly telling you that what you want to do and who you want to become is DANGEROUS! And when you accept that new position - with more responsibility and people to lead - your conscious mind is saying YES! I can do this!